tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8937775707652436016.post8688026107476525519..comments2019-09-08T09:19:12.630+05:30Comments on HS Dwarakanath: Dwarakanath HShttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03564151014348348427noreply@blogger.comBlogger3125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8937775707652436016.post-21524419711929756992010-04-16T22:44:45.033+05:302010-04-16T22:44:45.033+05:30To Netra
The unpredictable trait of the future sho...To Netra<br />The unpredictable trait of the future should bring enthusiasm every minute and every day. Unfortunately as you have rightly said only some times it is brings enthusiasm. This is the tragedy. We do not want to see the history. The world has always laughed at its own tragedies. That is the only way in which it can bear the tragedies. We are all cowards. We do not want to face reality. We do not want to smile at the tragedy. Forget it. We do not want to think of a tragedy. The day you develop an attitude of being able to smile at a tragedy, every time the uncertain future gives enthusiasm. If you do not learn to smile at the tragedy, future will always be fearful and you would never be able to live and you would only exist. Fear of future must be removed. Future should be looked with expectation and with a don’t care attitude towards possible tragedy. <br />To Archana<br />I don’t respect your judgment, let us agree to disagree cannot be foundation of life. That attitude should be based on consideration and appreciation of the other person’s views. An attitude that always I don’t respect any others judgment may not be right. I am not blaming you. You are absolutely right that there is no need for you to respect the judgment of others if on consideration and appreciation of the other’s view you don’t respect his judgment. <br />As far as money is concerned I don’t agree that any one is a beggar. We are not considering the way to get money. We are only considering how we should treat money. Your statement that what I have said is not practical may not be right. What I have said is difficult. But is right. No one need choose the size of the bed. The size of the bed is decided by the circumstances. <br />Your statement under clause (c) is absolutely incorrect. Getting hurt is your choice. No one can hurt you if you don’t want to get hurt. To expect return for the love you show is meaningless. Love is one way flow. The moment you expect something in return, it becomes business. I don’t agree with what you have written. <br />Regarding (d) I don’t agree that you have not achieved. I don’t agree you have wasted your time. There is no need to achieve is what I have stated. Your present day efforts should give you pleasure, enthusiasm and everything that would make the life worth living. What you have got or what you are likely to get should be of zero consequence. <br />There is no need to feel happy about what you have got. Happiness is not a good trend. Happiness results in contentment, it will reduce your enthusiasm. <br />To Rami,<br />I do not think that I ever said that there should be no arguments. In my Blog ‘Daddy Cool-2’ I have expressed that children should be encouraged to express their opinion. All kinds of exposure cannot mean exposure of kids to want of patience, ill-treating people and so on. I have only stated that arguments between persons should be based on respect to each other. You are right that children have to learn from our actions and deeds and not on what we teach. Arguments and communication is very healthy. What all I told is that such arguments and communication should be in a respectful atmosphere and environment.Dwarakanath HShttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03564151014348348427noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8937775707652436016.post-35871975304388281702010-04-15T03:38:16.811+05:302010-04-15T03:38:16.811+05:30Well.. don u think depression is caused by somethi...Well.. don u think depression is caused by something called "HURT" .<br />while reading a book it said "we pick up the unessential and cause suffering to ourselves". so true, but how difficult it is to follow..<br />wrt the followin reasons as u ve mentioned.-<br /><br />a. this stands the last reason wen it has to hurt a person is wat i feel, atleast after having learnt this outlook of "i don respect ur judgement",”we agree to disagree”…etc from u.<br /><br />b. money is an ogre unfortunately.. but i think most of us get depressed on this aspect cos each one of us are beggars to different levels..i can generalise this statement cos i ve not met any person who says they don need anything at all in their life..come on it is no wr close to being practical too.. The person himself has to choose the size of the bed in which he can sleep. So v debatable though!<br /><br />c. When ur loved one hurts u, it is on its way to cause depression! This happens wen u do all the good things to ur loved one and at the end of it if it is not acknowledged, doesn’t it hurt u??? pls tel me how can u overcome this?? This happens day in n day out..<br /><br />d. YES I ve not achieved anything in life so far, which has to make me feel on top of the world! I ve wasted 23yrs of mine and still not achieved anything BIG at all in my life.. n trust me it is still an enigma to me WILL I??? god pls shower some more blessings…!<br /><br />e. FIL I was telling u the other day na…. I cant be alone… I ll definitely learn to be one for my own betterment!<br /><br />Finally I jus want to be happy in life and not get depressed at all, afterall I m not any masochist… lol!! I sld be dreaming… its impossible, but atleast I sld learn how to cope up wit it, im sure u ll guide me n help me out in each step.. thanks for the wonderful support, love, care and affection tat u pour.. its jus upto the brim FIL.<br />better late than never.. I definitely DO want to count my blessings and say a v big thanks to the almighty who has kept me so good in life! Thank you!<br />Sorry for making my comment so long!archana abhijithhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14311612379484708614noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8937775707652436016.post-85598760811617607262010-04-15T02:04:10.332+05:302010-04-15T02:04:10.332+05:30I have experienced brief periods of depression at ...I have experienced brief periods of depression at various points in my life, caused by all the reasons that you mention, except the last one( I've never had a problem being alone). I have handled all the episodes well but, in my experience, the worst kind of depression is when it is due to unhappiness with one's achievements, and your post gives me a new perspective on the matter and has to a certain extent erased my faulty understanding of the concept of "Depression".Dr Bhaskarhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06678089251168829311noreply@blogger.com